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tv   The Day  Deutsche Welle  August 1, 2019 6:02am-6:31am CEST

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one juror's little one and he beat me as hard as he could. i begged him to stop i prayed to allah. but my husband kept pounding away so i had very long hair at that time and every time he hit me he pulled my hair again and again. he jacked my hair down to my hips he slammed his elbows into my hips and back he beat me with a stick and kicked me. in the west african country of binny and nearly one 5th of all females are subjected to genital mutilation. most girls are married against their will after they start menstruating at around the age of 12. many run away from their husbands and end up
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living on the streets before turning to prostitution. oh oh. oh. oh. 000000000. oh oh in the neon you know i wasn't forced to marry my husband did early on he tried to seduce me but i stopped him so he told his mother that i didn't want him yet he said get her parents to make me marry her or i'll drink poison and kill myself. but my mother refused then his mother fell on her knees in front of me she was quite old and i told her that i didn't want to marry her son when you are also welcome see she said that he was her only child and asked me at least to pretend that i loved him. not in this racket world my mother said that the woman had put a curse on me the older people shouldn't behave like that in front of younger
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people to go so i decided to marry him anyway she had put a curse on me and noisome would be seen what i. was. going to. be says when i was 16 i got pregnant for the 1st time though my husband and i moved to the city of parent who were planning to but we couldn't live with anyone in his family. so i stayed with a friend of hers and my husband was violent right from the start he scolded humiliated and physically abused me even when i was pregnant. where home he'd be when she beat me the day before i gave birth. when the baby was born there were marks on his body where my husband had beaten me. you could see the imprint of his
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hands the baby was in great pain as soon as you touched him he'd start to scream. let me down maybe i don't know much at all much the midwife felt really sorry for me. she told my mother to go to the police because she knew how much she had suffered because of me if you. can my mother said she couldn't do that. because it would lead to a divorce and that would ruin everything. i . was. going to get that he. was. down. to how that will be crucial in the book of genesis in the book of genesis chapter 2 verse $24.00 it says that god 1st created man and called him adam. then he took
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a rib from adam and created a death. and create a scene is the use of. the bible says god gave adam all 30 over 8th. from the creation down this authority was not created by adam but by god himself. it will man. napa some white women should just be quiet like this the man who makes the decisions fight. women is stupid. if you're married you know that already fornia. although when i get home i shouldn't have to tell my wife to wash my dirty clothes absolutely not my clothes should be already washed and dried so i can wear them right away. i don't want to have to argue about it so i'll do this.
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in then the dish almost all females are married against their will while they're still children. more than half of all married bangladeshi women say they've been subjected to domestic abuse. there are no laws to protect them from this kind of violence. on mobile i want to know how these the have it says that muslim girls over the age of 10 must be segregated from the rest of society and they must also cover their bodies. falling off the entire body must be covered including the head in the face that's what it says in the koran. no part of a woman's body must be visible to walk as a result of. only husbands are allowed to see their wives uncovered.
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some assad and women often bitten from talking to anyone except their husbands or. unless her husband gives his permission. those are the rules of purdah. the women are not allowed to go out in public without their husbands. or if a woman has children they must go with her. she is not allowed to go out by herself . you know holly to. fill a certain word don't i look lucilla's i didn't have a child for 3 years. that's why my husband physically abused me. it often beat me hard to push my head under the bed and pound my back and box i was absolutely worn out both physically and mentally. so
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we spent almost all my mother's money on medical examinations. and those tests shows that i could technically have children. it was my husband who was infertile. but the doctors also pointed out that i was much too young to get pregnant. the physical abuse continued my husband wouldn't give me any food for 7 or 8 days at a time my mother came to visit once and found me crying outside behind the house so i soon divorced my husband and looked with my mother for a year. from because i also thought it was so said it was what it was for us 11. i. i. i. was there
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for the collector who was later my aunt offered me a new marriage proposal and she said the man was ok and well. at that time i had no one to take care of me no father or brother so out of the models out i wasn't even 18 yet and i got married for the 2nd time was to see a point on my future husband was 45 years old after the wedding i discovered that this man had serious mental and physical problems. he started we couldn't work couldn't take care of himself if. i don't improve the when i 1st saw him and person i fainted and i didn't wake up for 5 hours. it.
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was god along with me whenever he wanted. them up so yeah i told myself that this was just part of being his wife but it was awful so i got my body felt like it was on fire but i couldn't tell anyone. so i just held my breath as if i was dead for. they always thought but when it came to sex he was insatiable. he wanted it all the time. when he penetrated me it felt terrible but i couldn't say anything much for a little. he demanded sex every day whenever he felt like it but he always took me by force for example while i was cooking in the kitchen. but the in-laws would come to visit and he drag me into another broom and have sex while he
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was and saying. oh my cock i'm going democratic republic of congo has been plagued by violence for more than 2 decades. a total of half a 1000000 women have been raped. and large numbers of women have been kidnapped and never seen again. that's relevant to me about the program to the house and stole everything when they were out of control i screamed please don't kill my children. and they asked where the children's father was around. and i told them he's not here. but they ordered me to find him and bring him over right to whiny and some of them raised their knives and threatened to stop me. they pointed their guns at us.
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they grabbed me in the middle of the night tied me up and threw me out sign and. they were yelling the whole time because they got their knives out and trying to kill me i thought they would kill me i didn't say anything. i just kept crying. we've been. around they came into the house and asked whether i knew where to find some young girls i refused to tell them. so they beat me up one of them punched me in the eye and someone said they should kill me but another one said that they were going to take the women into the forest and hand them over to the men who'd been asking for them. you know. rather well you got there they came to the house and pounded on the door they shouted get up you idiot i could hear their boots pounding on the ground. i said to
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myself the church of jesus one of them told me to get up and stab me with a knife. i screamed oh god who are they don't you. have got to have that if they stop me here and here and here or there. rather comical how i found myself leading a rash and i kept screaming. when i collapsed on the floor. dragged me to my feet untied me up. then i can stay out because i lost so much blood. i was still bleeding and they kept stabbing me here and here is. another of my it's like you crying oh jesus they just left me lying there i can't remember what happened after that. we can't.
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play. something. 1 like that. up and even the. fact that. she's my property i hope that we'll have a good life but if she starts behaving badly even though i gave a cow to have parents nothing out of the deal for me to read it without empathy. if she goes somewhere without my permission i can call her my wife and. their cause it's. every woman makes my bed the same way. the difference is in the way they make love. but if you go into the village and have good sex with a woman you can learn new techniques. but if you try them out on your wife she called you a male hole and a good woman has to accept the way that you make love so that you don't talk
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chasing other women consumable with predators around you can a woman express a sexual desire openly she's not allowed to talk about her feelings it would mean a man can tell a woman he wants sex but a woman in contrast demand for it and. i think i see. russia. in the democratic republic of congo women do twice as much work as men on average. but they have no opportunity to earn their own money or to acquire property. but it is a. that
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led. up to our. i i. was. on to maybe i hustle and and i had nothing yeah yeah and i got some food every once in a while i. was let down of affluence which. as soon as he come home he'd start
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beating me and yeah especially when he wanted to sleep with me and i didn't feel like it. was like if i had sex with him one day and then the next and then i'd say i'm tired he beat me on the 3rd day that's right. mom watch out in your head you know whenever i saw him i panicked you know what i see what he would do you know so afraid the oh heart races i was on you bang your head against the wall what you want to get by just myself i mean who you are really afraid of almost no one single i mean i wasn't allowed to talk to anyone else you hired me to do i couldn't have fun with anyone i couldn't go outside to talk to people i mean that's what he kept threatening me and then he beat me.


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