You can forgive someone and be civil to them but no one can take away your opinon of them as a potential asshole. I agree with both of you to a point. Paranoia in the forums due to actions by a few trolls has everyone accusing everyone else of being someone else. The way to determine if someone is legit is to see how far back their posts go, putting new users at a disadvantage. In time perhaps they will realize the truth either way. When a new name comes out of left field those folks anticipate an attack if they let down their gaurd. It's really silly but interesting at the same time.
